On the way to Neale LaPlante’s wake several
weeks ago, Susan and I were talking about how we had first met the LaPlantes.
Neale was actually the first "Kingston friend" I ever made. I say that without
hesitation because I met him a full two years before we moved to town.
We became acquainted under circumstances that we both would
have rather avoided. We were patients together at Jordan Hospital in 1976. I had
been in an automobile accident, had broken my leg and was pretty banged up in
general. I ended up in a four-bed ward; diagonally across the room from me was a
guy with the largest plate of ice cream I had seen in a long time. That was
Neale; and, if memory serves me correctly, I saw a few more of those plates in
the days that followed.
Neale was recovering from back surgery; we were
roommates for a week, maybe two. He was great company. His quick wit and sense
of humor helped pass the time. His wife Marge, who also has a wonderful sense of
humor, was a great source of support for Susan (and me) during those days.
It was a couple of years later that Susan and I ended up
living in Kingston – truthfully, by chance as much as by plan. When we decided
to upgrade from our first "starter home" a few towns away, we answered an ad
that described a house on Silver Lake. And, as they say, the rest is history.
In planning the move, we remembered my hospital roommate
and were pleased that we already knew some bona fide Kingstonians (even if we
weren’t 100% sure they would remember us!) and planned to call the LaPlantes as
soon as we got settled. As it turned out, we instead bumped into them at the
town landfill one Saturday afternoon.
We renewed the friendship, and over the years learned a
lot from both Neale and Marge about our adopted hometown. As stewards of one of
the oldest operating boatyards in the country, they had many interesting stories
to tell about boats, boating and a variety of other topics.
Neale had an appetite for good stories, and a greater
appetite for food. My initial assessment of his fondness for ice cream was right
on the mark. Marge recalled the time that she and Neale took a trip to Tahiti
and the natives nicknamed him the ‘Banana Split King.’ She joked, "Even halfway
around the world, they had his number!"
He was a genius at getting boats running and keeping
them running. He could resuscitate even the toughest motors and breathe another
year’s life into almost any vessel. He and Marge worked long, hard hours to
build Landing Marine into a thriving business. And more than a few times, Neale
was known for significantly reduce the bill for his services for someone in
need. He was one of those honest, hard-working guys who seemed to relish the mix
of running a business and being part of a community – from attending town
meetings to serving on the Waterfront Committee to "holding court" with visitors
on a variety of subject.
As Neale’s health deteriorated, though, it became
impossible for him to keep to the grueling schedule he once followed, and
eventually they gave up running Landing Marine. Marge recalls that Neale was
pleased knowing that the boatyard would continue on in good hands, and that
people would continue to enjoy the sights and sounds of the Jones River and
Kingston’s waterfront.
He faced his declining health bravely, with the support
of a loving and caring family —his wife Marge, daughters Jennifer and Julia, and
their families.
Neale LaPlante helped make Kingston a unique and special
place. He was definitely one of our town’s "good guys." When I think of the
saying that some people "get their reward in Heaven," I’m betting that for Neale
that includes unlimited portions of ice cream.
To a longtime friend, thank you. And God Bless. And to
Neale’s family, our sympathies, thoughts and prayers.